Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Emptying Out Their Piggybanks!

I'm humbled.

I received this photo yesterday afternoon.



Along with the photo, this text message appeared, "The kids emptying out their piggybanks for sweet Emma!  Loved your card and letter!"

Such a huge gesture from my kids' friends (ages 3, 7 and 8) - how thoughtful and given straight from their hearts.  Sullivan, Sadie and Stella are precious kids - very special friends to Ian and Aidan.  They are blessed to have Chris and Jessica as their parents. 

In just a few minutes, here's what arrived at our front door:


A box full of coins and dollars from their piggybanks ($68.80 to be exact), a cute green pom pom, a melted bead heart and a note - "We love sweet emma - Love the Abshers."

Our Christmas card and letter arrived at their home yesterday, and this box was delivered to our home the same afternoon. 

I must admit that I did NOT have faith large enough.  As I composed the letter included in our Christmas card this year, I thought it was a nice way to inform our friends and family of our plans to adopt Emma - where we've been, where we are and where we're going.  I never imagined there would be a response to our request for donations to our agency to fund Emma's adoption expenses.  I'm so thankful God knows my faith in what He can do is not big enough - and that He still comes through in spite of me.

We have thankful hearts for those who share this journey with us - to be a page in Emma's story.

Sunday, December 16, 2012

McGinnis - Party of Five


We've always hoped to have a family of five.  Over the past two years, we have asked God to complete our family.  It's been a difficult path - disappointment, medications and failed procedures.  In order to grow our family, God has called us to open our hearts to international adoption to rescue an orphan and make her our own - not biological but our own just the same.


We are currently in the process of adopting a baby girl from China through an international agency.  The adoption process will take 12-24 months and is a journey of faith each step of the way.

We look forward to introducing you to a very special little girl - our third child.  We do not know her yet.  What we do know is this:

She has never known the warm and loving embrace of a mother or the joy of a piggy-back ride from a father.  She has no concept of what a brother is, but she will have two brothers who love her even now.  She doesn't know what it feels like to be tucked in and kissed goodnight, warm and safe in a caring home.  She has yet to receive full medical attention, proper, nutritious food, a childhood that allows her to be carefree and an environment where she can thrive and flourish and reach her full potential.  She needs a loving family the most.  We are her forever family.  Her name is Emma.


We cannot wait to bring Emma home, to hold her in our arms and always provide a hand for her to hold as she grows.  No words can capture the true joy and excitement we feel as we anticipate the blessing of her presence in our home.  We've been told that we will be a blessing to Emma, but she is a blessing to us - a long-awaited blessing to complete our family.

Financing an international adoption in such a short time frame is difficult.  Our adoption will cost in excess of $35,000.  Our adoption expenses include everything from document preparation and translation, agency fees, travel expenses, government fees to medical and orphanage fees.

We invite you to joyfully partner with us financially to help bring home our Chinese daughter - your gift will make an immeasurable difference in the life of a child who needs a family.  We welcome you to be part of a story that imitates what God has done for us in Christ.  A story that reminds us that we are all adopted by our heavenly Father.  While not everyone is called to adopt a child, we believe and hope many will join us on the journey to rescue an orphan and make an eternal impact on her life.  You will forever be a part of our daughter's story - making it possible for Emma to come home. 

If you would like to partner with us, please contact us for a pre-addressed envelope and a donation form to make your financial contribution directly to our agency on our behalf.  As with any charitable contribution, please check with your tax professional for tax deductibility.
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Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!
Brian, Shannon, Ian & Aidan McGinnis

And anyone who welcomes a little child like this on my behalf is welcoming me.
  Matthew 18:5

Monday, December 3, 2012

Our Adoption Timeline

05.29.2012 - Applied for the China Program with our adoption agency (our 13th wedding anniversary)

06.13.2012 - Accepted to the China Program

06.18.2012 - Submitted Program Agreements

07.11.2012 - Assigned Home Study Coordinator

08.28.2012 - Delivered completed Home Study Packet

09.10.2012 - Home Study Visit #1

09.19.2012 - Home Study Visit #2

09.20.2012 - Home Study Visit #3

10.15.2012 - Received draft of Home Study Report

10.19.2012 - State Authentication of documents in Raleigh, NC

10.26.2012 - Received official Home Study Report

10.29.2012 - Submitted China Waiting Child application

11.05.2012 - Mailed USCIS I-800A application

11.19.2012 - State Authentication of document in Columbia, SC

11.27.2012 - State Authenticated documents mailed to adoption agency for State Department and Chinese Embassy Certification

12.05.2012 - USCIS fingerprinting apppointment at the Department of Homeland Security

12.13.2012 - Documents collected from State Department and Chinese Embassy

12.15.2012 - Received our USCIS I-800A approval

12.21.2012 - State Authentication of documents in Raleigh, NC

01.04.2013 - State Authenitcated documents mailed to adoption agency for State Department and Chinese Embassy Certification - final documents

01.09.2013 - Final Dossier documents mailed to adoption agency for shipment to China

01.15.2013 - Dossier Submission Agreement mailed to adoption agency - our Dossier will go to China on Friday (18th)

01.17.2013 - Documents collected from State Department and Chinese Embassy - final documents

01.18.2013 - Dossier to China (DTC)

01.21.2013 - Dossier arrived in China

01.30.2013 - Official Log in Date (LID)

10.04.2013 - Received Referral

10.07.2013 - Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adoption agency

10.17.2013 - Transfer granted

11.22.2013 - Official Log in Date (LID)

11.22.2013 - Received Pre-Approval (PA)

12.12.2013 - Homestudy Update home visit

01.02.2014 - Dossier Out of Translation (OOT)

01.17.2014 - Received Final Homestudy Update Report - for USCIS extension request

01.21.2014 - Mailed USCIS extension request